Friday, November 28, 2008

Black Friday shopping with 4 kids.....



Black Friday....we like all other idiots, went out shopping. Kim, Chris & I headed out WITH 4 kids! What were we thinking? ha ha. We actually had a blast. And actually found a parking space, without running too many people over. We hit several shops at the outlet center, then headed to Broadway at the Beach. We even made it to a bar on the beach to eat lunch. The kids really enjoyed that one. Seeing the dolphins in the ocean wasn't too bad either.

When we got to Broadway at the Beach, we hit a store called the Stupid Factory. Kim & I laughed at almost every shirt we saw in the store. Just when we calmed down from laughing at one, we would find another. The whole trip was worth this one store. Below are some of the shirts. I think I need some for work.
Perfect weather......

More to follow ......

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Happy Turkey Day!

Here is the entrance to Kingston Plantation. We are staying at the Margate Tower. We had reservations 2 towers over for Thanksgiving Dinner. We were a party of around 21 I think. The buffet was awesome and they had everything from Tom Turkey to Prime Rib. Tons of desserts and the best sweet tea.

Here is Chris and Chase (Chris' nephew). Its hard to get Chase to smile or participate in pictures...so if goofing off works..then I guess we go with it.

Kim and Chase (note again, goofing off works) Can you see where he gets it from?

The face that the girls are actually smiling all in one picture is a miracle. Usually one of the girls is either sticking their tongue out or crossing their eyes. So I was pretty amazed at this picture. We all had a great Thanksgiving Dinner.
I love this picture of Chase and Chris. Sort of goofing off, but it turned out rather well anyways.

We took the girls out on the beach to walk the pier, but realized we didn't have as much time as we thought. We ran into Patsy and took this picture. Do you recognize the Madonna glasses? You should have seen the people with envy in their eyes. We all know you want them!

I had to leave my mark. I was here! 2008.

Lauren and me. I love this picture. Especially with seeing the water behind us. The weather was great, especially in November.

Took tons of pictures with the family. Took several of me and the girls. We really are having a blast.
Not too bad for my camera. The little one I always keep on me. So this may actually be a Christmas card. Or maybe a big canvas print on my wall.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Thanksgiving at the beach....Kingston Plantation

Thanksgiving week, we were off to North Myrtle Beach. After, of course, Lauren's Thanksgiving Tea. Everyone else had already arrived but we got there later that night. The weather was going to be nice the entire time we were there. Yeah!

Here's the view from our balcony. Gorgeous isn't it? The view was amazing and the sun was shining. The girls were excited from the time we left the house.
Chris & I on our balcony. It was a much needed restful vacation. Even if we had a condo full of kids and crazy family members (from Chris' side, of course), we had a blast!

Drew & Patsy! Drew took a break from cooking breakfast to pose with his mom. No wonder Kennedy didn't know where her swimsuit was. I think it looks cuter on Kennedy!

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Thank You Tea-Timber Drive Elementary

A few years ago, I figured out what a Thank You Tea was. Sarah had picked me when she was in the 5th grade of someone she was 'thankful' for. Lauren had asked me about 2 months ago if Chris was off on November 24th. I said no, he works Monday-Friday! Lauren said "I have this Thank you u tea" I immediately interrupted and said "And you picked Chris?" She said yes.

The kids have to pick someone they are thankful for and write an essay as to why they picked that person. I didn't know what Lauren was going to say. I told Lauren she would have to ask Chris if he could come, but we couldn't tell him why. This ought to be fun. Lauren did ask Chris and he said he would come, but not without some hesitation.

A couple of weeks later Lauren brought her essay home and read it to me. It gave me chill bumps. I couldn't believe my 10 year old daughter had written such a wonderful essay. I told Lauren we couldn't tell Chris anything. I had also called Chris' mom, Patsy to ask her if she could come. I wanted her to hear what Lauren had written and thought about her son. I was so proud of her. I didn't tell Chris that I had asked Patsy to come, but I knew sooner or later he would find out.

Here is her original copy of her essay:

After all the kids read theirs, Lauren's was clearly one of the best written ones. And Im not saying that because Lauren is my daughter, hers was clearly stated, she didn't repeat herself numerous times and was a page long.

Here is a picture of Chris and Lauren after all the essay's were read:
Here's a video clip of Lauren reading her essay:



Sticky & Sweet Tour - Philips Arena Atlanta, GA

The trek to Madonna started Monday morning at 0600. I had to get the girls up, get them ready, off to school, drop sweatshirts and sunshine cart stuff off at work and then head to Charlotte to pick up Pam at Dad's house.

Spent a little time at dad's and then we hit the road ..... destination MADONNA! Suzy (my sis's Garmin) directed us, with an anticipated arrival time of 1630. We wanted to stop at a Chili's and eat, so Suzy located one for us. We did get to get out, sit down, eat with time to spare. We had called Philips Arena to check on what time the doors opened. 1830! Which would give us plenty of time to load up on shopping along with getting to our seats. Did I mention they were on the main floor 12 rows back?

We both saw Madonna at Philips Arena 4 years ago and then she had part of the stage that came out like a runway into the audience. We weren't sure if that was the case this year, because the seating chart showed 9 floor areas. We also weren't sure if our seats were going to be on the outside of the section or more toward the middle.

A-N-T-I-C-I-P-A-T-I-O-N...when we walked into the arena and saw the runway, we about died. As we were walking the path that was laid out for the floor ticket holders, the level of excitement was increasing. When we got to our section and the usher showed us our seats, both of us just looked at each other. There were 14 seats in our row and we had seats 11/12. Seat 14 was right beside the stage. Do you know what that means? Yes, I could touch the stage! I knew when she came out I was going to pass out!

This is me and Pam before the show started. We were so excited. I will never forget the 1st concert with Madonna that she ever went to, which by the way was 4 years ago at Philips Arena. I had bought 2 tickets from a friend that decided to go to a different venue, and they were hanging on the bulletin board in the kitchen. Pam and the kids had been down for the weekend and saw them hanging there and asked 'who are you taking to Madonna?' I said 'i dont know yet'. Do I need to tell you how that conversation ended? You guessed it!

We have seen her at Philips Arena in Atlanta, twice now and 2 years ago at the Wachovia Center in Philadelphia. I have also seen her in Detroit in 2001. There is probably no one else I would rather go with. I wish Pam and the kids would move to Raleigh. I bug her all the time about it, but there is so much to offer and maybe having me and the kids around would get her on a better life track.

Ok, back to concert stuff. Madonna was fashionably late, we knew she was 40 minutes late in Houston and 1 hour and 45 minutes late in Boston. Since she has no opening act, its all MADONNA! She came out at 2130 and played until around 0000. Can we say
totally awesome? The video below is her opening act.



Pam & I both noticed that there were not as many FREAKS this time. The last time we were in Atlanta, there were freaks EVERYWHERE. But low and behold, not to speak to soon... They were playing music as the crowds were coming in, and I happened to turn around, and about 7 rows back this guy was up dancing around. I had to have a picture. Which, BTW, does him no justice. But had to get one... hello...SCRAPBOOK MOMENT!

She was totally amazing. She always amazes me but more and more every time. She is 50 years old and dances in 3-4 inch stiletto heels for 3 hours and is NEVER out of breath. She is defined and tone on every inch of her body. But doesn't look like a female body builder. But guarantee she is more tone.

Pam and I both agreed she didn't have as much fan interaction as she usually does, but that still didn't turn us off.


Below is one of my favorite pics, because of the new sunglasses. Don't be surprised if you see me in the same pair! And dont be a HATER! Because I know everyone wants some.....


Saturday, November 22, 2008

Counting down to MADONNA!

So, yes I am off once again to MADONNA! About 6 months ago, the pre-sale was on. Pam and I both had talked about where to go this time. We really wanted to head to Miami, but that show ended up being on November 24th, the day BEFORE Thanksgiving. I was too afraid that with airline delays or any other possible thing that could come up, we would miss the concert and then, of course, it would be too late to get tickets anywhere else. So Atlanta was the next reasonable choice. It was at least within driving distance.



So as the ticket choices came up, Section 1, Row L. Section 1? We were frantically looking up the seating chart. Heck yes! Section 1 is the main floor. Row L? Thats 12 rows back from the stage.. Hello? Yes we want the tickets. I don't care what the price! Floor tickets? We've NEVER sat on the floor of a Madonna concert. Even though all of our pre-sale seats we have obtained have been great. But now.. WOW! We are going to have a blast!





So the time is now drawing near and getting excited comes naturally. Everyone always makes fun of me for liking her or paying the amount of money for tickets. But she is one of the few entertainers that sells ALL of her venue's out in a matter of minutes. And even when she adds second shows in cities, those sell out as well. She also has no opening act, she is on for about 3 hours and puts on an AMAZING show! I love going different cities and would have loved to have gotten tickets for Wembley Stadium on 09/11/08. Maybe next time.

Karen (Dr. Hunt)was supposed to go with us. She didn't really chicken out.. but Dr. Weiss decided it was more important for her to work. And even with Brownie buying the cone bra, I mean, really, was it more important for her to work? No way! I even asked Brownie today what he was doing on Monday, b/c Pam and I need a driver, since we are going the turnaround in less than 24 hours. FUN FUN! But Brownie has to work. Again, thats a Dr. Weiss thing.

Karen and I talked about it today and no matter what, she is definately in for the next show. No matter what Dr. Weiss says. ha ha. Im not quite as obsessed at Emilee and Edward....as a matter of fact, I wouldn't call it an obsession at all. No one gives you looks when you say your a Beatles fan, or INXS or Hannah Montana nowadays. But for some reason they give you funny looks if you say you like Madonna? Doesn't make alot of sense now, does it?

Madonna has certainly pushed the limit and raised controversy in many catagories. However, she does do a ton for the following organizations:

Madonna is a member of Raising Malawi’s Advisory Committee, and helps with the volunteer organisation’s mission to help orphans in one of the poorest countries in the world (Malawi) by providing water, food, medical care and schooling. She actively gives money to many causes, many relating to children.
She still looks go at the age of 50. Im sure if I had my yoga instructor and could do pilates for 8 hours a day along with a chef cooking and handing me what I could actually eat, I could actually look like that.
I think that is what is so amazing actually seeing her in person. She is so fit. She has no opening act, she plays for 3 hours and never is out of breath. I think her body fat ratio is a negative number. She looks great!

The countdown is on...........................

Friday, November 7, 2008

A happy circle....of friends that is...

"Friendship is essentially a partnership." -- Aristotle (4th century B.C.)


The unanimous feeling of most is that I'm a b*****. Which is ok with me, because I know the truth. My circle of friends is small for a reason. I have high standards and frequently come across people who can not live up to them. Lets see, lies...don't tolerate, 2-faced...don't tolerate! What else is there? Exactly what Aristotle said.. a partnership! Give and take. Do what you would want to be done to you. Is that so hard to understand? Obviously for some people it is. I have come to learn that my circle is small for a reason, and I like it like that. I want to surround myself with people I trust.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Another page in the HISTORY books....


Either way the election results came out, it was going to be history. We fixed dinner, the girls helped, and we all ate together. That was nice. We really need to get in the habit of doing that more often. It was nice. We finished up and then baked cookies. White chocolate macadamia nut and mini-chocolate chip and sugar, of course.


We sat down and watched, flipping channels numerous times to see who was reporting the results the quickest. We seemed to stay on CNN and MSNBC for the most part. It was exciting, seeing the anticipation in the girls faces was great. They had voted in school and Allison went with me to early vote, and they have asked a ton of questions, so I think they have a small grip on a Presidential election and the fact that history will be changed.


We watched state after state and the colors that they placed on the ice at Election Central. The girls loved it. Watching them place blue or red over the state was pretty neat. I had to send the girls to bed after 9pm. It was already past their bed time, even though they wanted to know who was going to win. I promised them that I would let them know. I stayed up for awhile watching and saw Obama's electoral votes jump to 103 with McCain at 49. I was hoping that the night was going to continue like that but who knows, it can change with every set of electoral votes.


North Carolinas polls closed at 1930, so everyone was anticipating getting some type of result around 2100. Where we going to be blue or red? North Carolina was a battleground state and has not voted for a Democrat since 1976 with Jimmy Carter. Is there a change coming?


I stayed up as long as I could, (probably could have stayed up longer but I did pick up 7a-3p and needed to be up by 5am) but left the television on. Not sure what time it was but Chris told me Obama had won, I turned off the television shortly after and didn't wake the girls.


When I got up this morning, I told Allison that Obama had won she said "yes!". I went downstairs and did my morning routine and heard Lauren a few minutes later asking who had won, when I told her, she responded 'yippeee'. As excited as they are, and even though they know that history has been made, they really don't have a clue as to how much this will impact our nation.


I watched some of Obama's speech this am, and it really was geared toward bring 'everyone' together. I hope it changes a nation and for that matter, the world!

Here is the transcript of his speech:

Hello, Chicago.


If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible, who still wonders if the dream of our founders is alive in our time, who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer.

It's the answer told by lines that stretched around schools and churches in numbers this nation has never seen, by people who waited three hours and four hours, many for the first time in their lives, because they believed that this time must be different, that their voices could be that difference.

It's the answer spoken by young and old, rich and poor, Democrat and Republican, black, white, Hispanic, Asian, Native American, gay, straight, disabled and not disabled. Americans who sent a message to the world that we have never been just a collection of individuals or a collection of red states and blue states.


We are, and always will be, the United States of America.


It's the answer that led those who've been told for so long by so many to be cynical and fearful and doubtful about what we can achieve to put their hands on the arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day.

It's been a long time coming, but tonight, because of what we did on this date in this election at this defining moment change has come to America.

A little bit earlier this evening, I received an extraordinarily gracious call from Sen. McCain.

Sen. McCain fought long and hard in this campaign. And he's fought even longer and harder for the country that he loves. He has endured sacrifices for America that most of us cannot begin to imagine. We are better off for the service rendered by this brave and selfless leader.
I congratulate him; I congratulate Gov. Palin for all that they've achieved. And I look forward to working with them to renew this nation's promise in the months ahead.


I want to thank my partner in this journey, a man who campaigned from his heart, and spoke for the men and women he grew up with on the streets of Scranton and rode with on the train home to Delaware, the vice president-elect of the United States, Joe Biden.
And I would not be standing here tonight without the unyielding support of my best friend for the last 16 years the rock of our family, the love of my life, the nation's next first lady Michelle Obama.


Sasha and Malia I love you both more than you can imagine. And you have earned the new puppy that's coming with us to the new White House.

And while she's no longer with us, I know my grandmother's watching, along with the family that made me who I am. I miss them tonight. I know that my debt to them is beyond measure.
To my sister Maya, my sister Alma, all my other brothers and sisters, thank you so much for all the support that you've given me. I am grateful to them.

And to my campaign manager, David Plouffe, the unsung hero of this campaign, who built the best -- the best political campaign, I think, in the history of the United States of America.
To my chief strategist David Axelrod who's been a partner with me every step of the way.
To the best campaign team ever assembled in the history of politics you made this happen, and I am forever grateful for what you've sacrificed to get it done.

But above all, I will never forget who this victory truly belongs to. It belongs to you. It belongs to you.

I was never the likeliest candidate for this office. We didn't start with much money or many endorsements. Our campaign was not hatched in the halls of Washington. It began in the backyards of Des Moines and the living rooms of Concord and the front porches of Charleston. It was built by working men and women who dug into what little savings they had to give $5 and $10 and $20 to the cause.

It grew strength from the young people who rejected the myth of their generation's apathy who left their homes and their families for jobs that offered little pay and less sleep.
It drew strength from the not-so-young people who braved the bitter cold and scorching heat to knock on doors of perfect strangers, and from the millions of Americans who volunteered and organized and proved that more than two centuries later a government of the people, by the people, and for the people has not perished from the Earth.

This is your victory.

And I know you didn't do this just to win an election. And I know you didn't do it for me.
You did it because you understand the enormity of the task that lies ahead. For even as we celebrate tonight, we know the challenges that tomorrow will bring are the greatest of our lifetime -- two wars, a planet in peril, the worst financial crisis in a century.

Even as we stand here tonight, we know there are brave Americans waking up in the deserts of Iraq and the mountains of Afghanistan to risk their lives for us.

There are mothers and fathers who will lie awake after the children fall asleep and wonder how they'll make the mortgage or pay their doctors' bills or save enough for their child's college education.

There's new energy to harness, new jobs to be created, new schools to build, and threats to meet, alliances to repair.

The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep. We may not get there in one year or even in one term. But, America, I have never been more hopeful than I am tonight that we will get there.

I promise you, we as a people will get there.

There will be setbacks and false starts. There are many who won't agree with every decision or policy I make as president. And we know the government can't solve every problem.
But I will always be honest with you about the challenges we face. I will listen to you, especially when we disagree. And, above all, I will ask you to join in the work of remaking this nation, the only way it's been done in America for 221 years -- block by block, brick by brick, calloused hand by calloused hand.

What began 21 months ago in the depths of winter cannot end on this autumn night.
This victory alone is not the change we seek. It is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were.


It can't happen without you, without a new spirit of service, a new spirit of sacrifice.
So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism, of responsibility, where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not only ourselves but each other.

Let us remember that, if this financial crisis taught us anything, it's that we cannot have a thriving Wall Street while Main Street suffers.

In this country, we rise or fall as one nation, as one people. Let's resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long.

Let's remember that it was a man from this state who first carried the banner of the Republican Party to the White House, a party founded on the values of self-reliance and individual liberty and national unity.

Those are values that we all share. And while the Democratic Party has won a great victory tonight, we do so with a measure of humility and determination to heal the divides that have held back our progress.

As Lincoln said to a nation far more divided than ours, we are not enemies but friends. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection.

And to those Americans whose support I have yet to earn, I may not have won your vote tonight, but I hear your voices. I need your help. And I will be your president, too.

And to all those watching tonight from beyond our shores, from parliaments and palaces, to those who are huddled around radios in the forgotten corners of the world, our stories are singular, but our destiny is shared, and a new dawn of American leadership is at hand.
To those -- to those who would tear the world down: We will defeat you. To those who seek peace and security: We support you. And to all those who have wondered if America's beacon still burns as bright: Tonight we proved once more that the true strength of our nation comes not from the might of our arms or the scale of our wealth, but from the enduring power of our ideals: democracy, liberty, opportunity and unyielding hope.

That's the true genius of America: that America can change. Our union can be perfected. What we've already achieved gives us hope for what we can and must achieve tomorrow.

This election had many firsts and many stories that will be told for generations. But one that's on my mind tonight's about a woman who cast her ballot in Atlanta. She's a lot like the millions of others who stood in line to make their voice heard in this election except for one thing: Ann Nixon Cooper is 106 years old.

She was born just a generation past slavery; a time when there were no cars on the road or planes in the sky; when someone like her couldn't vote for two reasons -- because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin.

And tonight, I think about all that she's seen throughout her century in America -- the heartache and the hope; the struggle and the progress; the times we were told that we can't, and the people who pressed on with that American creed: Yes we can.

At a time when women's voices were silenced and their hopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up and speak out and reach for the ballot. Yes we can.

When there was despair in the dust bowl and depression across the land, she saw a nation conquer fear itself with a New Deal, new jobs, a new sense of common purpose. Yes we can.
When the bombs fell on our harbor and tyranny threatened the world, she was there to witness a generation rise to greatness and a democracy was saved. Yes we can.


She was there for the buses in Montgomery, the hoses in Birmingham, a bridge in Selma, and a preacher from Atlanta who told a people that "We Shall Overcome." Yes we can.


A man touched down on the moon, a wall came down in Berlin, a world was connected by our own science and imagination.


And this year, in this election, she touched her finger to a screen, and cast her vote, because after 106 years in America, through the best of times and the darkest of hours, she knows how America can change.

Yes we can.

America, we have come so far. We have seen so much. But there is so much more to do. So tonight, let us ask ourselves -- if our children should live to see the next century; if my daughters should be so lucky to live as long as Ann Nixon Cooper, what change will they see?

What progress will we have made?

This is our chance to answer that call. This is our moment.

This is our time, to put our people back to work and open doors of opportunity for our kids; to restore prosperity and promote the cause of peace; to reclaim the American dream and reaffirm that fundamental truth, that, out of many, we are one; that while we breathe, we hope. And where we are met with cynicism and doubts and those who tell us that we can't, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people: Yes, we can.

Thank you. God bless you. And may God bless the United States of America.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Weekends in the Emergency Room....

There is a different breed of people that work weekends. Thats not bad in ANY way. I have been picking up weekends, because, you know, its that time of year and extra Santa Claus payments have to be made. Working at anytime and enjoying it is actually easy if the right people are there. Emilee has become one of my best friends (despite hearing about Edward every day). Oh, and did I mention that Im going to clone her husband Mike? I have to dig out the pictures of Mike and I enjoying life! But seriously, working in an Emergency Room and working 12+ hour shifts daily is hard, but it does make all the difference in the world with who you are working with. We had a great Saturday in the OBS area. Natalia, Emilee, Ashley (who I am orienting) and Anna. It was a pretty great group.

This was also the last day to early vote, so as everyone in the ER awaits the results of OUR poll, we were all talking about early voting and Dr. Marshall even got on the bandwagon of making sure everyone had voted. Emilee started talking about it and the next thing you know we sent her off to take lunch and early vote. She called and then came right back because 'the line is about a mile long'. I sent her right back. I was covering her beds and told her not to come back until she had a 'sticker'. That was her proof. ha ha. She kept texting me...

(1318)-Emilee "all ok still? I am strating to get close to the door"

Me "you are NOT allowed back until you get a sticker!"

(1339) Emilee "Almost there"

Me "Sweet! I told Michael you were with Edward"

Emilee "I heard! Too f'in funny" "This is getting unbearable"

Me "But think of the satisfaction when ur done"

(1405) Emilee "Coming back, send Ashley asap" "Come let me in

door by break room in 30 seconds"

So Emilee was back, Natalia was next. Ashley was actually leaving at 1500 so she was going to head over after work. We gave Natalia the same instructions that we gave Emilee, do not come back without a sticker. Got it?

Natalia didn't let us down either. Dr. Marshall was quite proud. Someone actually made the comment that we were sisters in another life. I took that as a compliment.

So off to the end of our 12 hour day.... Needless to say it helps when your Charge RN can function, mentally as well as the staff.. when you have this leading you... you have no where to go but up...