The ex-husband decides to text me late last night with a reminder to check where I had water leaks a couple of years ago. HELLO? I think I have that under control...so when I got up this am, I felt a little 'sarcasm' coming on...so I texted back about 0615 and told him Chris had already checked.. ha ha.. Boy, did that feel good! Then the texting battle was on. He proceeded to tell me that I needed to 'quite taking advantage of every situation that I can'. He also told me that his equity needs to be paid so that he can 'finally turn the last page in our 20 years of knowing each other'. Turn the last page? Heck, I burned the darn book when you chose to meet another woman at a bar, while having her drop you off at the house at 0530 with me and your kids sleeping inside the first night you met her! Can I get an amen? Hello???? I may be blonde but im not THAT stupid! That is a situation that your mother may forget about BUT will NEVER be able to change. He also advised me to pay for the gloves that last year were given to me as a present from the girls. Also, I guess he is on a kick to, again, keep asking for things he has left at the house, one piece at a time! Now its the video camera from his mother. Next week or month, it will be a salt or pepper shaker from 15 years ago, or maybe that one lost black sock from 7 years ago that was left outside? Can anyone feel my pain here? I did tell him that as much as he wants the world to see me like he does, IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN, because, Im a much better person that what he wants to make me out to be.
I have never once since calling her a ***** the first night I got confirmation, ever said a word about her to him, the kids or ANYONE, yet every single conversation that he and I have, Chris has to be brought up in some way. Yet, I plug along and continue to keep my mouth shut. When I asked him one day about how I could do that and he couldn't, his response was 'i guess your just a better person than me'. Uh? Heck yes I am!
I guess lots of our friends that know Chris and know me and know him, are realizing what an *** he really is and not the all around guy that he thinks he is. One that does more for ANYONE else than his own kids.
At least when he does call, it makes me laugh, not sure if its the ringtone or the nice picture that comes up, and all of you who know me, now exactly what Im talking about. But it does bring a chuckle EVERYTIME!
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